Any smokers out there?

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Ever come out of your sauna session and light up?  Go for a workout just after a smoke?  Ever feel like a hypocrit putting all that effort into putting the right substances in your gut, then being fully aware of 4000+ substances you wouldn't dare eat, but let in your system via your lungs?  Ever stop to read the label on your package of smokes?  I usually just laugh at Government attempts to legislate the smoke out of me, but until it's internal, when it comes from within, is the only time I've had any success stopping. 

I've been a smoker for 28 years with several quit periods, the longest 1 year when I bore a child.  I've been in the serious contemplation phase again in the past several days.  I want to set another quit day and go cold turkey.  Are there any others at or nearing this decision?  Maybe we can support each other.     

I'm starting week 2 of phase 1 and yes, I feel better overall.  My health indicator went from 51 to 20something.  The best feeling is the feeling of being in control though.  This puts me in a calm and "i'm on top of this" sorta mood.  There's no logical reason I can't extend this control to my cigarette habit.  I'm about 75% habit/pleasure/social, 25% addict.  My hubby will still be smoking but has mentioned quitting lately.  I won't wait for him though.  I'm looking at a week's time from today. 

Anyone wanna get on board the wagon?   

Lisa.

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Totally on board. Have tried weaning to wellbutrin. I am retuning to Dr. Hyman's program after having completed 3-4 weeks and straying over the past year. I can't wait to feel better again. I have a buddy that gave up smoking for lent and has been free for several months. My wife is off cigs but has a wicked nic gum habit. During a recent visit to my dermatologist, she commented that the most successful of her associates had gone cold turkey. Her comment has played on my mind and today i have taken action. I have never tried to develop a support structure to help me quit eventhough i am aware of the benefits and would love to offer my support to others in kind. Just taking the step to reply to your post has give me a boost of commitment. I know the first 24 hours is critical. So why not quit today?

 Clay

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Wow, talk about jumping right in there!  Very brazen and cool.  I'm not entirely sure what you mean by "weaning to Wellbutrin", but when I tried it many years ago, I was impressed and even had limited success.  In fact I liked it so much, my doctor still prescribes it as "Vitamin W" ha ha.  I've decided on cold turkey for several reasons:  I've done it before and survived; swapping smokey nicotine for chewy or sticky nicotine is well, only a lateral move; cost (isn't it enough to have paid the dragon for cigs all these years?); and my experience in the hospital where I work, watching all the smoking patients come in that HAVE to go cold turkey (it's a locked unit) and finding the ones that choose to just bite the bullet and go without nicotine replacement are over their worst cravings sooner.  I also have had recent practice going cold turkey off sugar, wheat, dairy, eggs, beef....well you know!...and am surviving quite nicely thank you. 

How's the first 24?  Were you contemplating this for a while, or was it spur of the moment?  Are you hooked up with any online support material, or just here?  I've read a couple of good books, one about the nature of change in general but related very closely to addictions (Prochaska & Prochaska "Time for Change") - hope I got that right, and another one that escapes my mind right now but kind of gets you to practice conquering relapse vs focussing on quitting, so you don't go back to smoking.

I'll have more about that later if you like, but thanks for replying to this topic, and I hope to see you around soon.  This is a big step towards health, and now that you're back on track with Ultrametabolism, it will be the perfect adjunct to rid ourselves of the unnecessary crap we inhale, mostly without thinking or, sometimes for myself, even liking it.   

I've decided on August 9th, this Saturday at 0700 to stop the smoke.   

Lisa.

P.s. did you know that within 24 hours of quitting, your lungs are already starting to repair themselves? 

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I am having more fun. I really must apoligize, i realize now that i should have introduced myself to the community. I'll go back and do that. I have always been suspicious of online communities and have never really participated. Though i have researched various technical communities/posts mining them for info. It's just that your post hit me with the perfect sentiment at the perfect time.

 By weaning to wellbutrin, i meant that i have tried every trick known to womankind in order to quit smoking and yeah i've been forced to go cold turkey in a few situations but i never really, really in my deepest heart of hearts wanted to succed - wait, is that an addict talking or what. So i do beleive that conviction is a key element and a plan and support and i'm really glad that you responded an were kind.

 The first 24 is going great! A little tough this a.m., you know those tape segments that play in your head. I too have a toolbox for cravings. I'm sure you're familiar with cognative behavioral therapy (CBT). I'm no expert, just a few tricks i've picked up. I would be very interested in any material you have to offer and will check out the book on change as it sounds interesting.

 Pink Lungs - what a concept!

 

Well i got up to prep food so i guess i better get at it. By the way i am an awesome cook and will be submitting some recipie ideas  - that was the main reason i was crusing the boards. Can't wait to have you in the non-smkg ranks and look forward!

 

Clay

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So true!  Hey, if anyone has reason to be suspicious of anything online, it's me, but that's WAY too long a story and unrelated to this.  Glad you happened along at the right time.  Timing is everything.

Yeah, I know about the replays in my head, the visual ones especially.  They try to keep reminding me that I'm a smoker when I'm not.  But the lower functions just haven't caught up to the higher functions of the brain.  We think we're so developed, but as I was reminded of in UM book, we really are still primitive physiologically.  I'm gonna need something minty to help me because I'm into menthols, and have been thinking real, like in the book, I'd go with maybe chewing on a sprig of real mint vs gum or Werther's in the past.  I liked the long lasting aspect of Werther's to keep my mouth occupied.

Today I've been telling my significant others of my quit date and getting the idea of being a non-smoker more on my mind.  I went to Body Worlds - exhibit of human bodies - maybe you've heard of it - I'm sure it's googlable.  Anyways, you could tell immediately as you entered another exhibit if that person was a smoker by the color of their lungs.  Was the color of ashes mixed with black spots.  I started to covet pink lungs (they're more pinky-grey, not alien-like!?).  THEN, at a display table, there was a dry preserved (kind of plasticized) lung that I was able to handle.  I was totally struck by the delicate delicate nature of a lung, the lightness was truly like a fine sea sponge.  someone earlier had put a bit too much pressure on it and you could see inside the tiny little air sacs.  They are also smaller than I had imagined.  So that kind of struck me that I should be taking better care of my delicate little lungs.  I'm sorry I've insulted them for so long.  They really do miracles for what they have to filter.  Maybe some day I will have to reckon this out with them. Ha!

I'm so excited about your cooking skills because I'm the opposite, and would love to have some of that rub off on me.  I was thinking to post my favorite breakfast, but thought it was too plain.  I just use the "enjoy" and "avoid" lists to make my own food up.  Just not very fancy. 

Thanks for keeping me posted, the first 24 are nearly up by now, aren't they?  I'm so impressed.  Don't be afraid to be honest, as I will, I promise.  And I promise I'll get the confirmed name of the book next comment.  (You like the suspense, don't you?)  Okayokay, that's just another procrastinator comment.

Lisa.    

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The procrastinator comes through in record time:

"Changing for Good" by Prochaska, Norcross and Diclemente.  A Revolutionary six-stage program for overcoming bad habits and moving your life positively forward. ISBN 0-380-72572-X

"Allan Carr's Easy Way to Stop Smoking" This is the Canadian version.  ISBN 0-9734684-0-8

Today I am planning to visualize myself as smoke-free during a steam bath and delaying "automatic" smokes by 10 minutes.  The ones I just reach for without even thinking, like when I get in the car. 

Tomorrow I will be driving a non-smoking rental van 7+ hours to get my daughter and 3 friends to an all-day concert.  It's an annual mecca.  Will have to pull over for smoke breaks, so will get lots of practice delaying gratification.  Next post Thursday.

 

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 Wow -

 Too bad you couldn't do that one whilst quitting eh?

 Sounds like a blast. End of day 2 for me. The whole world sucks but i haven't smoked by ... g_ _. Thx for the titles and hope you all have a good trip. Look forward to your next. Hey, have you noticed that we are the only ones participating. Can't be that we are the only smokers. I see you on several other topics. What's the general impression you get of the community? I am grilling rosmaryed rack of lamb, smells wonderful - gotta go -

 Cheers

 Clay

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Kudos to you for wanting to quit smoking. I quit on October 29, so I am smoke free for 9 months. I used Chantix and it really was painless most of the time. They have an online support system or they will even call you everyday and if you ever really feel you can't handle it and just have to have a smoke, you can call for one to one support. The support plan last for one year. They are on my speed dial, but honestly I have never used the one to one support.

The hardest times for me were in the morning, in the car and after meals. I found cinnamon sticks were excellent substitutes. Since they are hollow I could mimic smoking and I also chewed them. I read years ago, that cinnamon somehow helped with craving, so this was my addition to the Chanatix plan. I still have one in my car and use it during stressful traffic sometimes.

Sunday, I went for a hike. The temperature was in the 90's and the humidity had to be close to 100%. I was tired and sweaty but I could breath. What a change, since the humidity would have cut the hike in half before and I would feel like I was suffocating, then light a cigarette anyway, sad.

I did gain weight, almost 20lbs, but that was well worth it for me, even though I was already overweight. I started this diet plan 6 months after I quit and lost 12lbs in 3 weeks. Unfortunatly, I had to have my gallbladder removed and have returned to my old eating habits, for now. I keep linked with this site so I don't loose site of my goal. I have been testing my system to see what I can tolerate now and plan to return to USD in the next couple week after a trip to Mom's.

Good luck with your health goals! 

 

 

 

 

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I know there are many like myself out there. I have been reading these post find them inspirational and informative so keep it up. pls. I have tried everything!!! I'm not sure what is really stopping me from quitting? That s what brought me to USD hoping that if I can start eating healthy that I will change my thoughts about smoking. I also did the chantix and found it to be a miracle drug because it was the first thing I did that allowed me to stop  smoking. I found that I blew up like I was on steroids and I got scared so I stopped taking it. I have this thing about taking drugs and wonder what else it might be doing to my body, makes no sense cause I'll put that cigarette in my body!!!! YUK! I even have alan carrs book, the other one I am not aware of I will ck it out though.  Just wanted to let you know that I am out there too reading the posts..   Frown

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Hi, and special welcome to you new posters.  Hearing your struggles and learning from your experience is what this is all about.  The cinnamon stix are a great idea and I'll definitely use those old stale ones at the back of my spice cupboard for this.  I adore cinnamon!  It's also known to curb appetite, taken internally I suppose, but why get picky?  It's also something I can use at work. 

2 days for Clay, YAY.  Well there's your answer to us being the only smokers, huh?   I have 2 different co-workers use Champix (we Canadians always have to change the name of things somehow, notice? sigh...) with two different results: one hard core smoker quit seemingly effortlessly, yet gained +++ weight.  The other had to stop due to side effects of emesis.  You know, I'll let my secret invention be known publicly here first:  I'd make a drug for quitting smoking that makes you nauseous every time you tried to smoke.  I mean I'm sure I could come up with a chemical reaction to at least one of those thousands of substances in a cigarette, that would make you ill even thinking about having one.  And for people  who cheat by not taking a pill everyday, an injection lasting 3 months.  They make Antabuse for alcoholics, why not similar for smokers?  I KNOW it would work for me.  Ever get sick on something and avoid that substance for the rest of your life?  (Mine is coconut and tequila! separately, of course!)  Anyways, now that someone is running to the patent office, keep karma in mind. 

My day went great.  I've never had so much energy driving those kids than today (this is year #5) and this time I went for 23km bike ride with my brother while I waited for them to call for a pickup from the concert!  Zero coffee, just a cooler of UM compliant food for me.  I had to take the kids straight to the Bow River so they could undie-dip the mud off themselves.  Funny how one puddle can go so far and not end up on any of the others I saw coming out of there!  I'm off to bed now after 7 hours on the road listening to bands like "Less than Jake", and "Minor Threat".  All the passengers are smokers, and I didn't get one complaint about not smoking in the van.  Didn't even enjoy the last one of the day, it made my throat slightly sore.  Or that could've been from all the singing too...? 

Sorry for the lengthy post.  Clay, I've been trying to get up the courage to make lamb for the first time ever.  I have only had one bite to taste it a decade or so ago.  I'm making turkey chili tomorrow for freezing ahead.   

Good nite, Lisa.

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OK - so this wellness community thing is pretty cool. Unfortunately, i relapsed today after 4 days of cold turkey. I have really been unpleasant to be around and have had pretty constant urges since last Sun. I had this three day detox period in my mind and had hoped the insanity would quell but instead it worsened due to some added stress. I just snapped and dug out an old pouch of loose tobacco and rolled up three fat stogies. So, anyway, i am back on the horse and have about an hour of nicotene sobriety. I am confident that cold is gold. My wife is on Chantix for about a week now. 

I am wrapping up the prep week and begin the prescription on Monday along with my wife(40ish) and stepson(18). Woo Hoo!

Lisa - get yourself a rack rub it with olive oil sea salt pepper rosemary tyme basil preheat oven to 425 and broil it right up close to the broiler for about 15 minutes on each side then turn the oven off and let it set for about 20 minutes. Melt in your mouth lambies approx. med rare to med.

 I actually have a jen aire range with a grill (any grill would do) and i cook them on it  and then throw them in the oven to set for a bit. The broiler works fine as well.

Thanks for the encouragement everyone! I am not giving up.

Clay

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You are so real.  And you sound so determined.  I'm cheering for you.  Geez, I hope I don't turn into a beeotch in the next couple of days.  Just knowing that you are going through withdrawals might remind people around you to give you a break though, right?  And if they don't...welllll )*&%(&^$)*&^ on them!  If only I could go pitch my tent in the wilderness for a length of time, maybe my relations would survive this intact.  And by the way, I'm glad I picked tomorrow for quitting because I didn't have to bear it through my PMS'y time.  Why stack the deck against myself?  My suggestion to you might be, in order to help you detox, take a tip from your next week coming up to get into some sauna action.  I've been to a couple of local rec centers, and even used the demo booth at an infrared sauna show room (I'm now going to finance one with my savings from not smoking - how win win, huh?)

I will so make lamb next week, just like that, and let you know how I did.  Do you have any experience with cocoa nibs?  I have raw ones, and I'm really trying to like the taste, but thought I'd ask you if you have any ideas on making them more palatable ie roasting? marinating? I don't know...

I'll leave you with a quote I put on the door to my exercise room:  "Supposing you have tried and failed again and again.  You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call 'failure' is not the falling down, but the staying down."      -Mary Pickford

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Hey

I'm just sitting here putting together a list for Week 1. Yeah! As of yet i have had no luck finding nibs. I am going to make a concerted effort to do so though and will get back to you on that. 

I have been entertaining this sauna thing. Very decadent! I have vague memories of the Birmingham (AL) "Buisnessmans" YMCA. A real good ol' boys club from my childhood and those old sea lions lounging on the cedar benches and tellin lies. Ever since my experience with the navy i havn't been much of a joiner. Ideally, i will find a pay to play setup. In any event there is a sauna in my near future. I begin fat boy yoga in the morning and plan to build up to hot yoga. I wonder if the benifits are not similar. I digress.

Thanks so much the encouragement. Resolution is the Key. I am just so sick of giving up of giving in to the dragon beast from hell that is nicotene. So incidious. Bleck!!! Gird your loins and prepare for battle. And yes, regarding the tolerance of others, there are civilian causualties in every war. 

Love that quote. Your posts are so well crafted. Mine are just a stream of conciousness im afraid.

 Clay

first 24

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Oh yeah, finally butt out now.  Said goodbye to a dear but millstone of a friend today.  Sometimes you have to know when to let go.  Actually started ahead of time due to running out.  I've eaten half a cinnamon stick already.  Dealing with triggers by going to my air conditioned bedroom, a place I would never dream of smoking, or repeating "pink lungs" to myself until it goes away.  Also went for a 35 minute walk/jog in the dark.  Finding myself quite blonde today, as in returned dvd's to the wrong rental spot, difficulty making decisions.  Have been told by S.O. I've been totally unbitchy.  Tomorrow I plan to unleash my new-found extra time not spent smoking on cleaning.  Especially to clear a spot for my sauna.  Still awaiting word the financing is a go.  S.O. (sig. other) thinks I'm nuts for wanting a sauna in this heat.  It does sound bizarre: an air conditioner in the hot upstairs and a sauna in the cool downstairs!

Hot yoga and saunas do have a similarity for sure in that heat aids to increasing circulation and excreting waste.  Have you done yoga before?  I'm going to try some classes in the coming week.

I'm also excited for you to start your first week of detox.  I'm starting third week of detox and have found myself trying to find better fitting jeans already (too baggy!), have re-discovered the kitchen and food creation, and either sleep better or need less sleep or have insomnia, I'm not sure.  I also love being able to move my body around better from being stronger and lighter, like getting up from a deep knee bend without having to push off with my arms. 

I don't mind the stream of consciousness at all, I can follow real well.  How long has it been for you now? 

Girding my loins,

Lisa.   

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It's good to see you have your sense of humour - you're gonna need it. i smoked like a drunken sailor loosed on Hong Kong all yesterday (2 plus packs). this morning i am hung over and generally feel like shitake. so we kinda sorta have the same quit date now. i will not smoke today, and that's a start. 

The two biggest things for me are 1) control the rage and 2) control the rage. I have my very first ever yoga class this morning and i really want it to take. my SOW (sig other wife) swears by it.

I truly would love to see you succeed with your sense of humour and sanity intact. You are in such a great place. Keep it up!

Clay

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have flown by, but I'm still at a loss.  I got on my bike after a teeny arguement with SO and rationalized that if I rode the 12km to my Mom's that I could have a smoke with her....then I had to turn back due to mechanical issues.  It was a sign from the smoke karma police.   So I've been completely off for 48 hrs and surviving.  I can hang out where I used to smoke and not get freakey.  However, I could eat and eat and eat though, so good thing I'm on UM and turned to a green salad followed by soy with fresh blueberries.  I'm gonna gorge on fresh blueberries while they're so in season here. 

You know Clay, the greatest thing about taking charge of my health is the utter control I feel I have taken, and that is definitely taking over the quitting issue too.  So maybe you do need to control your rage, but maybe you also need a controlled outlet to discharge some of that rage so there's less to control too.  Yoga is cool and all, or hot as the case may be, but do you have anything else like martial artsy or maybe the shooting range or something more testosteroney like that?  If you're into reading books, "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman comes to mind.  Of course you can always drive around and find some bad driver to curse at for the rest of the day.

Okay, now's the hard part for me, SO is out of smoke and is talking about quitting too.  Now what do I do?  Yikes.  I feel like getting out of town.

Lisa.   

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To stop smoking takes a lot of motivation and will power. In "Prescription for Natural Healing" they make many recommendation thet may help you through the process. One suggestion that may help with the stress are herbs like catnip, hops, lobelia, skullcap, and/or valerian root. It recommends many additional detox supplements and procedures that could also help. Most health food stores, even a GNC, has this book that is available to read for references on what supplement to purchase. I actually own mine, since it is such a great reference book for health issues.

I am officially one of "those" exsmokers. I am so turned off by cigarette smoke now. I can smell a smoker from 10 feet away and it still surprises me. I will even ask my nonsmoker boyfriend if I smelled that bad and he will just look at me like, duh. I even bathed twice a day and washed my hair daily. I had to defunk my car and my closet, because of those clothes that are "clean", since I just wore them for an hour or two. I am glad I smoked outside, so my house didn't reek too.

However, speaking of smoking outside, how rude, I can now smell the smoker in the car ahead of me, while waiting in line, and as I walk into stores and restaurant, I get to smell it there too. Sometimes when I am outside I can't even locate the culprit since the smell can carry from yards away.

On a brighter side my health has improved. The nagging little cough I had is gone and my sinuses are clear. Yesterday I went on a hike, which I would have never even attempted in August heat and humidity. I was a winded after climbing the stairs up the ravine, but at least I didn't feel like I was suffocating. I even think my skin is a little smoother.

If I ever cave and smoke againg, which I won't, I would be so embaressed by my smell and that so many people would have to smoke when I did, just by being outside in the "fresh air".

I said all of these things to give you a perspective that you will experience when you finally do achieve status as an exsmoker. By all means seek help. I can not imagine going "cold turkey". Try using herbal supports, books, accupunture, support groups, hypnotism, or witch doctors (just kidding) any help you get will get you closer to your goal then you can be one of "us". You can control this demon, after all you are larger and smarter than nicotine. Just do it one cigarette at a time.

 

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mhall24: Great timing for a tune-up.  I was just pondering getting a pack because I was disappointed my sauna won't be delivered for 3 days. Pathetic. (hey, their head office is 20 blocks away from me!) 

I too have a great olfactory setup and was reminded by your post how awful smoking smells.  Even though I would go to great lengths to keep my secondhand smoke from others on the street, I knew ya can smell it a mile away.  On my breaks from work, I have to not only go outside, but off the property (it's a hospital).  Many times I've come back in (cognizant to have stood down wind, brought my butt in to dispose of in the trash, etc), washed my hands, and had patient's comment they sure would like to have a smoke too (they can't, it's a locked unit), and I feel so bad for them.

I've considered accupuncture and may again, soon.  I was hoping to sweat it all out.  I could still go to the rec center if I wanted to, so that excuse about the sauna is moot.  First yoga class tonight.  Trying to find free mp3 downloads for motivation too. 

Well, time to go for now.  Thanks again for speaking up about your experience and tips.  It truly helps. 

Lisa.       

Not an option

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Buying a pack of cigarettes is not an option.

One day I wanted a smoke so bad and I wanted a cup of coffee with a candy bar, it was really bad. I literally stood in the middle of the room holding my head repeating, "That is not an option!". The only thing I could think to do was lay down and breath. So I went to my bedroom, laid on the floor and breathed while I cried. It was not pretty but I made it through.

That was my worst day, from there I new I had it whipped. I still have days when I would like to smoke, but it is just not an option. I just thought I would let you know that it is not easy everyday, but smoking is not an option. Hang in there.

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Third day, and it was the toughest so far.  It's amazing the excuses and rationalizations you can come up with to give in to the demon.  I saved myself.  Just tried thinking of something else and retreated to bed until it passed.  "pink lung" mantra came up again.  Was also the first day I was around another smoker.  I told her I hadn't smoked since last Friday evening, and she never smoked around me even once.  Rode my bike past someone smoking, and took a good whiff.  I did of course go straight on by.  It's an odd thing to identify myself as a non-smoker. 

I also went to first yoga session.  I was proud of myself for being strong from workouts to hold my body up or flex like the lighter beginners, and even some of them couldn't do what I could.  

Clay, I just want you to know I'm looking for your next post, even if you might be off the wagon buddy.  Keep it in mind.  I also realize not everyone can post every day.  Keep control over that little, deep part of you that doesn't want to give it up.  It may never go away, but can be kept in check. 

Lisa.

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I'm still smokeless.  When habitual times for a smoke hit me like a wall (such as getting in my car, post meal, tea time, etc) it takes less time to distract myself.  I'm not coughing anything up at all like I thought I might.  Sauna arrives tomorrow night.  Found a hypnosis cd for being smoke free and healthy.  I've already kept about 33 bucks that would have been gone on smokes.

Lisa. 

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Kudos to you!

Now after five days you are only experiencing the behavioral situations of smoking. From what I understand the first three days are actually the days for the physical withdrawl. As long as you have an plan on how to cope during your triggers and stresses you should be doing a little better everyday.

Go to www.whyquit.com and check out the stop smoking benefits timetable. The way our bodies can heal themselves, if we will just do the right thing, is really awsome.

By the end of the Olympic Games you'll deserve a gold medal, or at least something pretty with the money you saved. You are already a winner for taking the first step. Keep posting your progress.

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Day six and still on track.  My SO paid me an odd compliment by saying he didn't know why I ever smoked in the first place (because my quitting was quite easy to take, or seemed relatively painless on my part).  My sauna arrives today, so will be doing something with my saved money very soon.  You've been wonderful with the support.  Thank you again and again for taking the time to do so. 

CLAY:  If you're reading this, go back and look at that quote above again please.  Drop me a line here, privately, anywhere buddy, doesn't matter what's happening.  Stay cool.Cool

Lisa.

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I hope your still smoke free, with the weekend being here, I just wanted to offer you a little encouragement. Since you may have the weekend off and all this time on your hands or like me a million things to do, you will be out of your daily routine. 

There may be triggers that you have not concidered, so be ready with a back up plan. You may have to avoid a person or place that might tempt you.  I avoided road trips if they were over 45 minutes, since smoking in the car was one of my biggest triggers. Going to the club or some other events may have to be put on hold for awhile.

I am glad to hear that you have been coping well and havn't offed your SO. Everyone in my life managed to live, but they did tread lightly for the first few months.Wink

Backwards

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Thanks for the words of encouragement.  I will be honest with you, I smoked a total of 5 cigs yesterday, 2 with my Mom and 3 with a friend I was catching up with after 10 years over a glass of red wine.   They weren't that great, haven't had one since, and haven't had the urge to either.  It was a 2 hr drive one way, and didn't smoke in the car which is usually a huge trigger for me.  I'm not going back, I will not be a regular smoker again, I know it.  Just like I will never go back to being the weight I was.  I'm done with the business of being a prisoner in my own body, a captive of my unnecessary desires. 

I've actually had all this time off from work since I quit (was part of my plan when choosing a date), and now tonight, I go back to work.  I plan to do something different on my break, like go for a walk instead of the usual for a few nights.  Second biggest trigger is when I walk to and from work.  Have no fear: will be armed with my trusty cinnamon stick tonight to beat those nasty cravings off my back! 

Major fiasco: Sauna arrived but couldn't fit one piece down the stairs despite having to make a 1'x1' hole in the drywall.  (Boy was THAT a test of not turning to smoke for stress management!)  My genius SO had to take it apart and reassemble/glue/clamp it.  Tonight may be my first chance to enjoy it.

Clay, I looked at a rack of lamb in the store and just couldn't get the little bstrd out of my head.  Couldn't go through with it.  I really don't know what I'm missing, but that's something I can live with.  Laughing 

Lisa.

No offense

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No offense to your Mom, but I knew she was going to be a problem for you from your other post. You two may need to work out a compromise, so you won't be tempted when your with her. If you could meet her in a location where there is no smoking allowed like the mall or you could plan a health outing like a hike or a bike ride and no alcohol it just compromises your will.

I'm sure you know this, but it might help to hear it from outside your head. I honestly just stayed away from any triggers for the first month or two. Unfortunatly, everytime you smoke it is like starting over for your body with the withdrawl. I'm glad the cinnamon trick is working for you though.

Since, I am having a hard time breaking the sugar cravings this time around on the diet maybe the cinnamon stick can help me with those too. Keep up the good work. We are not out unless we give up on our goals.

No offense taken

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I truly haven't had any since Friday, nor wanted to.  I just don't find it as rewarding or satisfying or something anymore.  The cravings, which are more like hmmm, a smoke would be nice right now, go away in minutes.  I just don't want the hassle of smoking in my life anymore.  It stinks, you have to always have some on hand, have a place to go, take up so much time doing just that because you have to be in, like, another province to smoke, cost, and so on.  There's a definite freedom I'm tasting, and it's cool. 

My Mom on the other hand, didn't want to take smokes on this little trip of ours, just to help me out.  I was the one who insisted.  After all, why put her through withdrawals at my brother's place for the weekend.  She's blind and doesn't get out unless I take her out, due to history of falling.  I'm her only family in the city.  She loves me to death and wouldn't try to do harm to me in the slightest sense.  I'm the one that brings her smokes.  If I don't, she gets other seniors in the building to get them for her and I don't want her to get ripped off again.  I figure at 78 years, as long as she's not a fire hazard, who am I to tell her she can't smoke?  Anyways, off topic. 

You know, it's a good thing I'm on UM while I did this, but now that I've done it, I would not recommend quitting just as I was starting detox.  There's a whole lot of other adjusting to do at that time.  I'd either do it before the whole thing or just after detox.  Just in case there are others who might be reading and wondering.  But hey, anytime is a good time to lose bad habits, just set yourself up for success, then bite the bullet.

Lisa. 

Comfort zones

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I am very sorry if you thought I was blaming your Mother for your choice of having a cigarette. However, you said in another post she is someone you feel comfortable smoking around and that is always a difficult situation. 

I was just warning you and suggesting that you develope coping stategies for dealing with the temptations. It might help if you go to another room or just make a pack with your mom that she is not to give you any even if you buy them for her.

I could have never made it through detox week and withdrawl symptoms at the same time. You can be very proud of yourself that is quite an accomplishment.

No problems

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No apology required, I didn't take any offense whatsoever.  I really do appreciate the time you've put into helping me with this.  All your experience and suggestions are pertinent and valuable.  Just having a forum like this to vent to is an incredible tool we would not have had mere decades ago.  Your encouragement is not wasted. 

Still not smoking here, but there is sadness in my house today.  We are mourning a beloved pet cat who has not come home per her usual routine.  It was times like this that I worried about being able to bear without the crutch of smoking.  This is my unfortunate first test of true resolve.  Having my unpaid for sauna in my basement actually has contributed to me not going and putting out some money for a smoke in a futile attempt to quel the grief.  I did however eat foods I'm supposed to be avoiding, and in large quantity.  (Chips and dip).  I coped by asking for a hug from my SO, taking a ride around the neighborhood, checking local bulletin boards, and getting out cat tatoo info to give to the pound tomorrow, just in case.  No one has called, and our number is on her collar.  I've had cats all my life, and Pronto is by far the bestest little friend I've ever rescued, but a free spirit too.  (Totally off topic, but writing about it helps me not reach for a butt).           

Clay, I miss you, you swashbuckler! come back! Arrrrrrrrrrr!

Lisa.

Cats Rule

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Man, I am so sorry about your cat. I hope she makes it back soon. I too love cats and I allow mine to be inside/outside also, which does pose additional risk, but I feel my cats are generally healthier and happier than my neighbors extra fat indoor ones. One of mine will even give you a kiss, (lick), on the nose when asked.

I know how hard it is to remain strong and not cave when these stressful times blindside us. Are you taking anything to calm your nerves? I am having a hard time getting back on track with this diet because of emotional eating, so I started taking 5-HTP. It has helped a little, but I have only been taking it for a little over a week. A few other options would be SamE, GABA, or L-Theanine. GABA might work best for just occational use because the benefits can be felt within 20 minutes, from what I read. If the 5-HTP doesn't give me the kind of results I am looking for over the next month, I'll switch to the SamE, but it is fairly expensive.

One of the best coping stategies I used was deep breathing and mock smoking with my cinnamon stick. Slowly breath in as deeply as you can, hold for 5-10 seconds, then slowly exhale as much as you can. I experienced a mild body sensation after I did this almost like the rush of that first drag of a much wanted smoke.

Keep writing, I'm hear to listen and help if I can.

Two weeks today - with caveat

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Okay, I'm not counting the two occasions I did a little backsliding over the past 2 weeks.  I still consider myself as having quit for 2 weeks.  Anybody disagree?  Do I sound like I'm rationalizing?  Be honest.  I have actually gone from smoking approx 140-200 cigarettes in 2 weeks, to 7 cigarettes in the same time.  I still have times where I'd love one, but don't break down and go get some.  I think it will always feel weird not to be able to pull one out at certain times, but the memory of habit will fade with time.  It did for another VERY addictive substance I kicked several years ago, so it will for this too.

A positive thing I've been finding is that my heart rate when I'm exercising seems to be less than what it had been as a smoker.  I seem to need to exert myself more in order to raise the heart rate to a certain point.  Of course it's a bit easier too as well, so that's okay.  The rate also recovers a bit faster after an interval as well.  It takes less time to come down to the rate I started at.  Oh, and my resting HR is the lowest I've measured it at 56/minute. 

Thanks for 'listening',

Lisa.       

Lisa, You are doing

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Lisa,

You are doing fantastic! I think you've been a non-smoker for two weeks too. I don't think it's ever a black and white thing where if you have one cigarette you've blown the whole thing and you are now back to square one. Look at all the health benefits you've gained.

I am a pescatarian (fish eating vegetarian)... just because I had chicken wings at a party one night doesn't make me a non-pescatarian. My choice for not eating meat is not a moral thing. I just don't like it without a lot of unhealthy goop on it so I choose to be healthy and not eat it. You have quit smoking for your health and if you slip and have one, brush yourself off and keep on going!

To me, justification is, I can do this because I deserve it and the next time it's because I've had the worst day, no one else could understand, and the next time... etc.

Someone once told me, if you are going to "slip up" and you really can't find any way to avoid it, do it while being in the moment. Don't space out and have that cigarette or chocolate or donut. Be there with it. Think about why you are doing it. Is it helping the situation? What gratification does it give you? How does it really taste/feel? Do it slowly and deliberately. Sometimes just putting yourself totally there makes you realize, this is actually very disgusting and it's not giving me what I really need. And yes, it can even work with chocolate! I did it the other day with a french fry. I took two nibbles and realized all I really wanted was the salt, but if I had denied myself even the nibble, it would have driven me crazy! Now fries don't tempt me in the least.

You may find that your occasional slips will be a half cigarette, then just a drag... then just the thought will be enough to remind yourself you have a better plan! You don't want those nice pink lungs going all discolored and gooey and sticky.

You could also journal how you feel after you've had one. Headaches, lightheadedness, dizzyness, burning in your throat, bad taste in your mouth, clothes smelling... (I'm just reaching here, I've never been a smoker) and even some of the benefits you feel you get from it. The more conscious you make it, the more chances you have of changing the behavior somewhere along the line.

Keep going, Lisa! 

Every day you are taking one more step in the right direction!

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Nothing tastes as good as healthy feels.

Know thyself

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I think it is important that we know our personalities and limitations. For me I tend to be rather self indulgent and have an all or nothing mentality. So I would not be able to have just one or two and get back on track. So just be careful with those little cheats, they could suck you in.

I am having the same problem with food, so like I used the Chantix to stop smoking I am taking a couple of medications to help me get my diet on track. I was really hesitant to do this because I wanted to be "healthy" and do it naturally but there is nothing healthy about being 70lbs over weight. My new doctor is looking at some of the factor that could be affecting my weight from the UM book, so happy! 

Anyway, my computer is having problems and it will have to go in for repairs. So, I just wanted to let you know I'll be thinking of you and if I stop by the library I'll drop you a note. 

 

 

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You both have very valid and useful points.  Yes, I'm still a former smoker, and yes, I will be very careful with the little cheats.  I guess you could say today was another acid test.  Got the call that my cat was dead.  We've prepared ourselves for this, but we were still just really gloomy today, crying and remembering our little friend.  Cry  Boy oh boy did I ever want a smoke.  Really badly.  Even considered going to Mom's just for a puff.  But I didn't.  So I cheated with food.  Big time.  Large DQ sundae and finished half of SO's blizzard.  Within 30 minutes I couldn't keep my eyes open I got so tired.  Yup, fell asleep watching the news in the garage.  Went for a 3 hr nap and woke with acid reflux and fluid retention in hands and face.  I've been craving something sweet since I woke up too, but hey, I didn't smoke.  Made bison-black bean stew instead, and now I'm poaching some pears in agave and cinnamon.

Lisa.     

Sorry for your loss

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I can't help but cry too. I know how hard it is to loose a part of your family, but I am so proud of you for not smoking. Allowing yourself to have a few treats like the pears or even DQ, if it gets you through this hard time is ok as long as you get back on track as soon as you can. You might try homemade icees made with frozen fruit and juice or water.

By the way I feel like such a tech head. I compressed and defraged files and changed my anti virus company, well maybe it helped.

It's always hard to lose

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It's always hard to lose those 4 legged family members. They snuggle their way into our hearts and it's hard to see them go.

You are doing great. Keep at it! You've been through the hardest part and your committment is still there. Soon healthy will be a habit too.

 

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Your sympathies are acknowleged and appreciated.  Pronto's remains were laid to rest today by us in a wooded area by a lake (friend's property) next to a rabbit of ours that went over before her (they were actually buddies!).  Hopefully that will bring another measure of closure for us.  I've tried to temporarily change my profile picture to one of Pronto, but this site won't take my size of pics.  (Call me crazy, but my two other cats have been acting strange, I seriously believe her spirit has found it's way home and is among us for a while still).   

I have been coping without smoking (sure have been tempted), but my diet and exercise has fallen off the wagon completely.  I think I programmed my mind to be over it once she was given a proper burial though, so Wednesday is the day I vow to carry on.  I think I will go back to a Detox-style of eating for several days, just to wipe out any sugar addiction that I believe may have been resurrected.  Hadn't been losing poundage anyways, and in fact was starting to "gain" if you can call going up 1.5 lbs over 2 weeks a gain.  Been like that ever since starting phase 2.  Maybe I should just restart the whole thing?  Seriously cheated for three days, as in cheeseburgers, fries, pie, ice cream. Just the symptoms I had from this are enough to swear me away for quite some time again (acid reflux, super-tired, just wanted to stay in bed).  Never thought I'd be saying "give me groats!"

Thanks again, you guys are great.

How are you?

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Just checking in to see how your feeling. I know this has been a set back for you and I hope your still checking in. I don't think I have read anything from you in the last few days. Its the weekend, finish up the junk you bought and put the spoon down on Monday and try again. I hope you have not smoked, but if you have you can start over with it too. There is no reason you can not hang with us either way. I have found this to be a great place to share the good, bad and ugly.

Depending on how far off the wagon you have fallen, you may want to do a more modified version of the diet, while you stop smoking. You certainly were brave doing USD at the sametime. Get back in touch I am here for you.

I peeked at your profile is that your Kitty?

Still kicking!

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Yes!  That's Pronto.  Thanks for pointing that out to me, I thought the size would be too big.  She would be inside a box (or bag, or purse, or even pants) within seconds of putting one on the floor. 

I've abstained from smoking this whole time.  My eating has made the scale even more than when I started UM.  I seriously don't think my intake has been outrageous, but definitely not what the doctor prescribed.  My plan, starting today is to track and record everything that goes inside me for 10 days.  I also use a site called My Food Diary dot com and it's been dormant for a year other than to record my weight twice weekly.  I will enter everything I eat and all my exercise for the next 10 days, using phase 1.5 as I call it, meaning detox lists plus oats, yogurt, and beef.  I found these were the hardest things to be without during detox.  So, that's the plan anyway. 

Point of interest:  I have weighed myself 4 times before and after using my sauna, and have consistently lost 1.5 pounds of moisture.  That's roughly near 2 cups of sweat.  Amazing!  (wish it were excess adipose, but I'm not fooling myself!)  Well, off to pour myself another glass of H2O.

Thanks for your continued support.  How are you all doing in your efforts?

Lisa.

Proud of you

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I am so glad to hear your still kicking. Not smoking is the number one priority! I say this for we must always remember, because I personally have had a hard week I wanted a smoke so badly somedays I thought I would crawl out of my skin. So even after 10 months today, it can be a challange. I need to start looking for a new job, but have to wait until I finish a few medical test, so the financial stress is starting to get to me.

The hardest part about going back out to look for a job is knowing that I don't look as good as I should, and I know people judge you based on your appearance. Honestly, I have gained 60lbs in the last ten years and I don't feel comfortable going job hunting yet. If not for the surgery set back, I would have lost at least 25-30lbs, maybe more. 

I think after stewing and freting about it all week, I am going to take a cue from you and log my food and exercise in my journal. This will give me a clearer picture of where I am hitting and missing on this plan too and give me something I can control until I get through this phase. I have my cheats, but they have gotten a little better, I guess, but the cig craving is worse. God help me!!!

I had a salad tonight at Zaxby's, that felt like a cheat, and I didn't eat it all, now that is sad.

 

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I think I have licked this smoking thing.  My efforts with UM have been stalled however, and I struggle to regain the momentum of before.  I've been trying to take one day at a time, sometimes breaking those days down into hours or minutes as needed.  Being accountable by writing everything down does help to a degree, if you commit to doing it.  I have only missed one day.  But yesterday, my caloric intake was close to 3600 of which about 3/4's was absolutely nutritionally useless.  Embarassed  Tell me about your efforts to regain sanity in your eating after going off.  I think I'll start a new thread.

Lisa.

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Glad to hear your still smoke free. I can't seem to get fully back on track since my surgery either. I am also just doing the UM, generally, but I never seem to have a day that is fully on track in all areas. One of my problem areas is grains and avoiding processed breads and pasta. I bought millet today, I told Allan that if Zebo (my sun conure) likes it, then it must be good. I have also deceided that my next house should just be a tepee, because the American Indians diets contained lots of seeds and grains.

A new thread for those of us who are really trying, but do have multiple issues, or just willpower trouble might be helpful. I'm still here and so are you, that means there are others like us that are silent, throw out the bait. One day at a time to a healthier life.

Teepees and peace pipes

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You're too funny.  I'll visit you in your teepee, but the peace pipe will be symbolic only I guess.  I think a new thread may help me get a hold on my food addiction which seems to have reared it's ugly head.  Watch for more.....soon. 

Oh, by the way, I did go to the football game (Go Eskimos Go!) last night and bummed a smoke from a guy (hard not to when HE gets to smoke, and I've had a couple of beers.)  WELL......I lit the WRONG END!  (it was dark, what can I say?) Boy was that disappointing.  A sympathetic bystander then gave me a small cigar.  I smoked that later, but threw it out half smoked even though I was enjoying it.  I still consider myself a former smoker, and I'm not deluded about that.  It's been 4 weeks.   One day at a time my friend.

Lisa. 

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In my tepee we will use a bubble pipe with all the cool scents. I know that was nasty lighting the wrong end of that cigarette, but maybe it was a good thing. Be careful of the cigars, because I am sure you inhaled and most cigar smokers don't, kudos for throwing half away.

About ten years ago, I woke up with a nasty hangover from a night at the club and pretty much gave up drinking. Now I'll have a few for special occations or just to unwind when we go camping. When I quit smoking I waited almost three months before I risked having a drink, because drinking was deffinatly one of my triggers. Next time just bring one of your oh, so cool cinnamon sticks, and maybe you'll resist temptation. Remember your ultimate goal is to be smoke free forever. One day at a time is cool and working for me too, 4lb lost with no pressure, just good food choices and limiting the cheats.

You know I don't what to preach, but here is something to think about. Everytime you reintroduce nicotine to your system, your actually restarting the whole physical process that your body goes through. So your detoxing again today, see what I mean, which makes it harder to stay motivatied everytime. I don't want you to give up, because I know you want this so bad this time. Not putting yourself in a mindset of depravation right now is good and something I read in a quit smoking book one time. Nex